The Ways of a Gentleman

The Ways of a Gentleman

The Gentleman and the Power of Responsibility

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The Ways of a Gentleman
Jul 30, 2025
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While I often write about the outward signs of being a gentleman, today’s topic touches something much more foundational. Personal responsibility. Without it, no amount of etiquette, style, or chivalry can cover for a life adrift. A gentleman is not merely well-mannered, he is well-anchored in his responsibility.

In today’s culture, the easy path is to blame others. It can be tempting to point the finger at other people or wallow in victimhood. However, a gentleman is made of sterner stuff. If you desire to be respected, successful, and happy, you must begin with one principle: Take full responsibility for your life.

Let’s explore why this matters and how to embrace it.

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