Five Timeless Love Stories Worth Watching This Valentine’s Day

You don’t have to have elaborate plans to make a Valentine’s Day meaningful. Sometimes, the most memorable evenings are simple. Maybe it’s a well-prepared dinner followed by wine and a movie.

In my opinion, not all romantic movies are created equal. While some might be over the top romantic comedies, there are plenty of romantic movies which have story lines that resonate with men and women. These films demonstrate qualities like dignity and honor, and are stories that you both can genuinely enjoy. Here are my recommendations that are perfect for Valentine’s Day weekend. Let me know what you think and share your recommendations in the comments.

1. Pride and Prejudice (1995, BBC Miniseries)

There are several film adaptations of Jane Austen novels but few as well made as the 1995 BBC miniseries starring Colin Firth as Mr. Darcy. Spread across six episodes, the story is not rushed in the confines of a feature film. Instead the pages of Ms. Austen’s novel comes alive in the series.

Mr. Darcy is not likeable to the viewer at first. He comes across as reserved and proud. What makes this series compelling is that the romance unfolds through personal growth. His affection is proven through changed behavior and his deliberate actions.

For Valentine’s Day, this series is not background entertainment. The themes of humility and honor are compelling and will be enjoyed by men and women.

2. Casablanca (1942)

This is an all time classic. If you’ve never seen it, this is the weekend to do so. Starring Humphrey Bogart and Ingrid Bergman, this is a classic romantic drama set during World War II. It is a story of choosing honor over desire.

Bogart’s character, Rick Blaine, is the cynical owner of Rick’s American Cafe in Vichy-controlled Morocco. He is reunited with his former lover and must choose between his love for her and assisting her husband escape from the Germans. When the decisive moment arrives, he chooses what is right rather than what is easy.

“Here’s looking at you, kid” is not just an iconic line from the movie, it demonstrates Rick’s loyalty. Few films treat love with such gravity. It reminds both men and women that romance and character are inseparable.

3. The Princess Bride (1987)

This movie has it all. It is romantic, funny, and has tons of memorable quotes. If you are looking for a love story with adventure and laughs, this one is for you.

This film succeeds because it balances adventure and affection without losing either. In my opinion, Westley’s comment “As you wish” is one of cinema’s simplest and most enduring expressions of devotion.

This movie is lighthearted enough to relax with, but sincere enough to feel meaningful. Few films manage to be both charming and honorable at the same time. Overall, this is a really fun movie to watch together.

4. The Notebook (2004)

This movie is very emotional for men and women, but hits on two important traits for every man, perseverance and loyalty.

What resonates most deeply to me is not simply the passion between the main characters, but their devotion over time. The story reminds us that love is not sustained by just intensity, but by making the choice to love that special someone again and again, even when things are difficult.

This movie hits hard and will probably stir conversations on a number of topics, including aging and loyalty. If you are looking for a love story about endurance, this is the one to watch this weekend.

5. The Last of the Mohicans (1992)

This is one of my favorite movies of all time. While it is not a traditional romantic movie, that is exactly why it is on my list. It is an adventure movie based on the 1826 novel by James Fenimore Cooper, but it is also an intense love story.

Set against the backdrop of the French and Indian War, the love between Hawkeye (Daniel Day Lewis) and Cora (Madeleine Stowe) is built on courage and resolve. There are true love scenes in the movie, but the love between Hawkeye and Cora is undeniable.

While their’s is the main story, other characters demonstrate their love and devotion as well, often willing to give their lives for those whom they love. In my opinion, the final sequence alone is one of cinema’s most powerful expressions of devotion.

Men will appreciate the strength and honor in this film, while women will appreciate the intensity and romance.

A Final Thought

If you are choosing a film for you and your lady, consider the following:

• Consider her taste, but pick out something you both will enjoy.

• Prepare the setting: dim lights and maybe a bottle of wine.

• Silence your phones and any other distractions.

• Don’t talk during the film. Save it for afterwards.

Valentine’s Day does not require excessive spending or the perfect evening, but planning definitely makes a difference. Sometimes love is found just sitting side by side, watching a story that stirs something meaningful inside of you both. If you are staying in for the evening, consider one of the movies above or pick out another one that you will both enjoy. Let me know your recommendations in the comments. Happy Valentine’s Day!

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